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It's not about matching.
It's about meeting.

Three intentions. Nine people at a time. 10Gays is being built around live presence, clear consent and honest endings—not an endless feed. Join your city's founding list and we'll tell you when early access opens.

9 people max

on your grid

0 swipes

don’t shop for men

0 ads

attention is not inventory

3 intentions

hookup, love, friends

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See how it works

Your vibe. Your truth.

Three ways to meet, one way to be real.

Choose Hookup, Love or Friends before you meet. Each lives in a separate space, with profiles and conversations shaped for that intention.

01

Hookup

Direct, honest and consent-led. State pace, timing and boundaries before assumptions fill the gap.

Direct
02

Love

A slower space for intentional dating, with short Face Snaps and one thoughtful introduction.

Intentional
03

Friends

Platonic by design, based on social rhythm, connection style and shared interests.

Platonic
No endless swiping

Quality, not quantity

Nine people. No endless swiping.

Your grid is intentionally limited. Profiles rotate over time; conversations you begin stay. The goal is to notice people, not keep shopping.

Consent first

Consent is the default

Nothing opens without your yes.

Photo, voice, location and sexual-content permissions are controlled conversation by conversation. Friend mode keeps sexual content out.

Off until allowed

Sharing permissions do not begin open.

Per conversation

A choice in one conversation does not silently apply to another.

Friend means friend

Sexual content remains unavailable in Friend mode.

Show up live

Real faces. Live capture required.

Designed for launch

No upload. Show up live.

Every account will have to pass a live camera Face Snap before joining. No gallery upload, prerecorded file or static-photo shortcut.

This is a required admission check for every mode, separate from the profile Face Snap used in Love mode.

  • Captured live A one-time challenge ties the capture to that enrollment attempt.
  • Built against replay The checks are being designed to detect photos, screens, replayed video and injected streams—not just camera permission.
  • Required to join A phone camera is required in the app and a real-time webcam on the web. No successful live check, no admitted account.
Honest endings

No ghosting. Just closure.

Designed for launch

No action is an action.

Keeping a conversation open will require both people to choose Keep talking. If someone does not choose to continue before the disclosed checkpoint and grace period end, 10Gays tells the other person clearly and closes the conversation.

Into queer life

Out of the app. Into queer life.

The best outcome is closing the app.

10Gays is being built for real plans, not more screen time. Our longer-term direction is to help people meet in queer-owned and explicitly queer-friendly places. Join the founding list and help shape how that should work in your city.

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